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May 18 2008
My
wife and I have been fortunate to enjoy the beginning of spring in three
different places. In mid-March we saw the first daffodils while visiting our
daughter and family in
As I write this on Mothers’ Day I am also thinking of my roots and Mom who had a saying for everything. One of those sayings was “you can take the boy out of the country but you can’t take the country out of the boy.” I never liked this saying because I thought of the stereotypical country boy as unsophisticated and lacking in social graces.
You
see I grew up on a self-sufficient farm in
The
Bufka farm holds many memories and I love to visit it but it has more than personal
appeal. I remember many tourists would stop and take pictures. A local artist
painted a scene of the farm buildings. A picture of the barn has appeared in
numerous publications and
The Lakeshore wrote in a report that “The Bufka farmstead, on the west-side of M-22, is an excellent example of a well-preserved complete farmstead…. The site is architecturally significant because of the type, style, number and condition of the farm buildings…. The Bufka farm is individually eligible for the Register. The level of significance is undetermined but is likely to be more than local.”
Another country instinct I have is for lumber. I can smell a lumber yard a mile before we can see it. My wife thinks that cosmetics companies should produce an eau de pine perfume for the ladies in the lives of people like me! I still get excited when we walk down the lumber aisle of Home Depot or Lowe’s. Thirty years ago I spent a lot of time at Nehil’s.
In
memory of Mom I share another saying of hers. She grew up across from
So in this spring of new life with memories of my roots I salute Mom and all mothers for their love and careful rearing with wise sayings. These are being handed down to my daughter and grandson to add to their memories.